Relationship Tips For Women: Eight (8) Secrets To What Men Really Want

Men and women have different views when it comes to love and relationship. While the latter is known to side more on the emotional aspect, it’s another story for the former. Make your man see you in a deeper level. Here are eight (8) secrets to knowing what the guys really want.

• They want to feel needed. The urge to protect and become a superman is a dream come true to any man. It makes them feel powerful and real good inside because it brings the feeling that they can conquer anything. Create opportunities for him to be your hero. Seek his help on tasks that only he can perform – ask him to pick you up from the office when you work overtime or save you from a boring party full of strangers. Remember not to overdo playing weak and helpless as too much of this can be unhealthy to the relationship.

 

• They want respect. Everyone, regardless of the gender, wants to be respected. Every couple has their own individual differences. By respecting his beliefs and priorities, you are conveying that your regard for him as a person is very high and that he’s a decent and trustworthy guy. Consult his opinion for the things that hugely matter. This will prove that you value his thoughts and that his words are of great importance to you.

• They want appreciation. Even the best looking, smartest guys on earth have their own insecurities. Show that you accept him for what he is and actually love him – all flaws and good points. Notice his new hair cut, how neat his appearance is and the way he carries himself. Laugh at his jokes, funny or corny it may seem. If he accomplished something momentous in his career, be proud of him. Keep your eyes glued only to him during your dinner date. Make him feel the sexiest human being alive.

• They want independence. Men are deeply attracted to ladies who are independent and know their own capabilities and skills. They cannot resist a self-sufficient, secure and confident woman. It inspires them. Be your own person and don’t make him your world. He would want his own space and freedom too so give him his privacy and cease that nagging.

• They want emotional maturity. Who needs someone who, at the first sign of trouble, either gives up right away or starts the blaming or name-calling game. They want a partner whom they can rely on emotionally and not someone who acts as if she just came out of a drama set from a daily soap opera, tears, hysterics and all. Be cool and objective, honest and sincere. Make fidelity and commitment the most sacred rule.

• They want challenge. Challenges always pose as an amazing spice in any partnership. Always find a reason to reinvent yourself so he’d be challenged and in fact be looking forward to seeing various facets of you. Be a prize to behold. Invite him to an activity where you excel and let him stand next to people who are worthy competition for your attention. Leave a lasting impression every day you’re together by creating experiences with him that are both memorable and challenging.

• They want passion and excitement. The secret to sizzling hot relationships lies on attracting the pheromones in men. Maintain the attraction bar and learn when to tease and heighten up the thrill. Flirt and play with him. Be unpredictable and surprise him. Take the pheromone advantage and bring up the level of excitement – dab his favorite scent on your pulse points and drive him wild or wear fabrics and textures that tantalize his imagination. Prep in front of him – apply lipstick on those red, pouty lips, fix your hair beautifully and leave a few strands teasingly. The usual guy doesn’t usually get this type of chance so this would be a sure turn on because you’re making an effort to be beautiful in his eyes.

• They want comfort.  They need to know that you’re there when needed and that you can take care of him the way his mother does. It’s true that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach – cook for him and treat him like a king. Win his heart forever by being someone he can grow old with – by being his companion and best buddy whom he can tell anything and everythineg.
  

Ways To Surprise Your Husband On Father’s Day

In less than a week, a lot of people in many parts of the world will be celebrating father’s day. Just like on mother’s day, many parents make plans for the whole family on that special day especially if the children are too young to make extra special for the celebrated parent. Hence, during father’s day many wives take effort to make the day special for their husbands.

Although planning something with the whole family is always an option, surprising the father of your children is a good idea also. Below are some ways you can surprise your husband on father’s day.

Breakfast in bed. Start the day right by giving the man of the house his favorite breakfast in bed.  Get up early and cook your husband’s favorite breakfast. If your kids are old enough, enlist their help in preparing and cooking. Even if they are still small, feel free to involve them by letting them do tasks that are appropriate for their age such as helping you bring the breakfast to their father.

Make it a day of dad’s choices. Spend the whole day together as a family and let dad decide what he wants to do. Offer some choices for him such as watch his favorite sports live, a quick swimming trip to the beach or the pool, or do his favorite pastime such as play golf or bowling.

Give him a relaxing massage. No man can say no to a massage. Squirt some cologne with pheromones men love and then give him a sensual massage that will both relax and stimulate him.

Buy him an unusual gift. There are many ideas for unusual or unique father’s day gifts. Some of these are pheromone men perfume, a photo album of picture capturing his moments with your children, a steak or grill monitor, and many more.

Let him be the kid. Every man has a kid in him. Allow him to let loose and indulge the kid in him on his special day. One of the things you can do is to bring him to an amusement park and let him have fun with the kids. You may also want to bring him to the park or the beach for a picnic; just make sure to pack all his favorite treats.

Give him a shopping spree. Let him have a taste of the enjoyments of shopping by taking him to his favorite shop and letting him shop for whatever he wants.

More Than Friends: Ten (10) Signs That Your Guy Friend Likes You A Lot

Find out if a friend likes you a lot. Here are ten (10) tell-tale signs that you are not in his friend zone anymore.

1.       He goes that mega “extra” mile. Friends stand by each other, through thick or thin. However, his definition of friendship has long been modified to another level – it doesn’t matter if he’s doing a difficult favor for you or he has to sacrifice sleep or health just to help you out, for as long as he’s near you, he’s more than ready to welcome the opportunity.

2.       He’s simply always there. Everywhere you look, he’s there. It’s as if he’s part of your everyday world already. In his own way, he’s starting to make you realize that you cannot live without him. He’s super attentive, frequently wants to be with you. He chooses to hang out with you over joining a boy’s night out. No man would do that unless he feels something more.

3.       He becomes Mr. Love Doctor. He’s all ears. He’s adamant that he is somebody you can totally trust, that you can tell him ANYTHING – friendship woes, love problems, even awkward topics like intimacy discussed by couples alone. He’s curious about your love life, asks questions about what you like in a man, your future and marriage plans. Time seems immemorial – you can talk until wee hours, he wouldn’t mind one bit.

4.       For him, no one is good enough for you (other than him, of course). He finds fault to the men you date, keeps reminding you that “you deserve someone better”.

5.       He confides, big time. He shares his future dreams with you. He’s not afraid to let you know his good and bad qualities. He’s transparent to you when he’s weak. He reveals the emotional side of him that he never showed before. For a man to be that vulnerable to a woman, it signifies a deeper relationship.

6.       He reacts differently especially when you comment about the way he looks. Let’s say you complimented that he looks great in blue. All of the sudden, his wardrobe staples are now full of shades of blue. Say you like a particular scent. Surprisingly, you’ll notice him wear this pheromone cologne brand all the time.

7.       His body language changes. He gets touchy – his hand lingers when he touches the small of your back, the usual brief embrace turns into longer, more intimate hugs. He seems to have a constant excuse to be close to you – to hold your hand, tuck your hair, smell the pheromone perfume behind your neck.

8.       He stares. He cannot take his eyes off you. When you catch him doing that, either he glances away or distract you by giving punch lines or turning it into a joke.

9.       He goes all romantic. It’s natural for a friend to be sweet but for a guy pal to be romantic towards you, that speaks volume. If in the past, he used to hate spending time seeing romantic flicks but now he’s interested on watching them with you, that’s a clear clue, girl.

10.   He’s the perfect model of a friend to all your friends. His ultimate goal – urge your friends to open your eyes that you’re lucky to have him, that you should consider going out with him and never let go.

How Pheromones Are Used By Humans

The use of pheromones by various animals has long been a widely accepted fact. Pheromones are chemicals that are secreted by animals in order to send signals to other animals whether those of the same species or to other species. There are many different types of pheromones that have been observed in animals but the role of pheromones in humans is still under debate and the question of do pheromones work has yet to be completely answered.

Still, a lot of people believe that pheromones also play a large role in human interactions. Below are some of the ways in which pheromones supposedly affect humans.

• Menstrual cycle. One case where human pheromones were observed is in the synchronization of menstrual cycles. With just a whiff of perspiration from other women, a woman’s menstrual cycle may speed up or slow down depending on when it was done. The study suggested that two kinds of pheromones are used by the body of women – one shortens the menstrual cycle and the other lengthens it.

• Sexual attraction. It was also observed that a pheromone secreted by women becomes more pleasing to men when it is secreted during the time of ovulation. This heightens sexual attraction and the pheromone is actually signaling men that a woman may be willing to engage in sexual interaction. On the other hand, males also secrete pheromones that are more pleasing for women while they are ovulating. These pheromones are the specific pheromones that many companies that manufacture personal care products are trying to include. Nowadays, there are perfumes and colognes that are designed to boost the sexual attraction between humans. Since the pheromones can usually be found in the odors secreted by humans such as in perspiration, putting them in perfumes, colognes, and other personal care products is usually the best way to put them to use artificially.

• Mood enhancers. There are human pheromones that have also been observed to improve the mood. Such pheromone elicits positive reaction in women although a negative reaction was observed in men.

• Information. Among the many possibilities for pheromones is that they can provide information about an individual’s immune system. Others suggest that secreted pheromones has information about the human’s immune system and this is used by the body for sexual selection.

Despite the wide acceptance of the fact that human pheromones do exist, there is disagreement over how these pheromones function and how they really affect humans.

Reading Your Date’s Body Language: Top Ten (10) Signs He’s Into You

You like your date. How do you know if it’s mutual? Decode his body language and learn the telltale clues that show he’s interested in you. Here are the top ten (10) signs:

1.      Constant Eye Contact. He’s always looking at you straight in the eye and can’t seem to take his eyes off you as if you’re the only woman in the room.

 2.      Leans towards you. He’s leaning forward as if he wants to get closer to you.

 3.      Runs his hands through his hair. He repeatedly messes or smoothes it in hope to draw your attention to his thick hair.

 4.      Touches his face frequently. He either rubs his chin, or touches his ears. These denote nervous excitement and that his human pheromones are taking over. Observe his face closely for:

·         Parted lips. It means he loves what he’s seeing

·         Dilated pupils. Watch if his pupils are getting bigger, it indicates he’s opening his eyes wide to see more of you

·         Raised brows. If his brows are rising slightly once in a while and he’s got this surprised expression whenever you’re talking, he’s definitely fascinated with you.

 5.      Adjusts his tie or fiddles his jacket. You make him nervous, in a good way. He’s doing a quick mental check on his appearance, from your standpoint.

 6.      Makes excuses either to touch or smell you. You reach for the table condiments, he does the same so your fingers meet. You stand up, he assists your elbow or at one time or another, you’d feel him smell your hair and sniff your neck rather accidentally. That’s pheromone advantage at work. His other senses are simply confirming what his sense of sight likes.

           

7.      Detaches himself from the crowd. You went to the rest room to freshen up and you found him somewhat apart from everyone while waiting for you. He’s unconsciously detaching himself so you’d look at him as an individual.

8.      Gets himself caught checking you out. You notice, quite obviously, that his eyes travel from your head to toe as if checking you out. He does this on purpose so you’d know he appreciates you and your body.

 9.      Marks his territory. He moves between you and another person to create a more intimate space. His arms may lightly wrap in the small of your back to guide you through the crowd.

 10.  Lends his coat to keep you warm. It’s not just the gentleman on him that dictates him to do this, it’s also a sign of ownership to keep the others from pursuing you.

Next up: How to know if she’s into you.

Dating Guide 101: Things to Remember When On A Date

This is a continuation of Dating Guide 101 series. Last time, we talked about the things you need to know before going ona date. On this post, let’s see the DO’s and DON’Ts while on a date. Here are seven (7) tips.

1.      Be yourself. Pretending to be someone you are not just to impress him/her is a big NO. The purpose of dating is to get to know each other. It wouldn’t be fair to both of you if you let him/her meet a different you. Knowing yourself translates to confidence. Exude confidence by being yourself. Be honest (but not blunt). Do not be a “trying hard”copycat.

2.      Body language. Maintain an eye contact. Create an impact by looking at him/her straight to their eyes. Do not make long glances or do open staring on a particular part of his/her body. Be discreet in checking him/her out. If you’re really interested and you want it conveyed, be subtle with your gestures. If you’ve worn women pheromone scent, let the human pheromones take the lead. Show your wrist in a not too obvious way. Perhaps, tilt your head to the left. It has been said that this action is sensually attractive. Reward him/her with your gorgeous smile!  

3.      Communicate. Ask open-ended questions. LISTEN. Pay attention to what your partner is saying. No talking about past relationships. Do not gossip. Keep your jokes in the middle, not too scarce so you won’t be mistaken as too boring, not too much either so you won’t be tagged as a clown.

4.      Eat. If the occasion involves eating, mind your table manners. Watch what you eat. Stay away from onion-rich food to avoid bad breath, or aphrodisiac meals so not to give the wrong idea.  Always have a mint candy ready for fresher breath. 

5.      Drink Moderately. Alcohol is a major deal breaker when you’re on a date. It helps calm those nerves, true but too much of it entirely loosens your inhibitions. Remember, you’re not out to find a drinking buddy so be moderate with your alcohol intake.

6.      Turn off your cell phone.Be attentive by giving him/her your full focus. If turning off can’t be help, put it on vibrate and silent mode. Make sure to check your messages ONLY if the other party goes on a bathroom break.

7.      Last but not the least, have fun! Seize the moment. Enjoy the experience.

           

Tune in next time for the conclusion of the series: Dating Guide Checklist After The Big Date.

Tips For A Romantic Valentine Date

Whenever the second month of the year comes along, most people are often in a more romantic mood. Blame it on Valentine’s day which has long been February’s most celebrated day. A lot of people, whether they are in a relationship or not, go out during Valentine’s day and there is often a heavy expectation to have a romantic date on this day.

If you are one of those who are aiming for a romantic Valentine’s date, below are some tips to help you.

• Set the mood. No matter what kind of date you may have in mind, your own mindset and mood will have a strong effect on the whole experience. Do not hesitate to set the mood by listening to romantic songs or watching romantic movies. If you prefer a more concrete approach that will help put your date in the mood as well, feel free to try using human pheromones to help you have the pheromone advantage.

• Enjoy yourself. No matter how you expect a date to be like, the most important thing is to just enjoy it once your date has started. Learn to let go of things that do not seem to be going the way you expected them to. Enjoying yourself will ensure that the date will be fun no matter how what happens.

• Focus on your date. A romantic night on Valentine’s is not just for you but for you and your date so make sure that you focus on him or her. Give her or him all your attention and focus on the time that you are spending together. Do not think about your work or any problem that you may currently have. Focus only on your date, yourself, and your time together. This will not only help you make the date romantic but you will also remember it to be all about the two of you long after the date is over.